Intensive EMDR Therapy For Men

(Whose Wife Said You Had To Go To Therapy)

In person sessions in St. Charles, Missouri
Virtually across Missouri and Arizona

You’ve come to a fork in the road…it sounds a lot like your partner telling you that they’re done with your relationship if you don’t go to therapy.

This isn’t the first time you’ve heard this. She’s said it before…it’s kinda like a broken record. She has no idea what it’s like for you to hear that from her. It makes you feel pretty shitty. It just reminds you that you’re once again failing at something.

You don’t mean to. You try hard. There’s just so much running around in your head. It’s hard to think sometimes. And when you do, it’s really nothing great. The more you try not to disappoint her, the more it seems you do. So what’s the use?

The truth is that the negative things that you have running around in your head are causing all kind of problems for you. You’re irritable. Anxious. Mean things pop out of your mouth before you can even think.

Truth be told, you’re fucking miserable right now and you’d do anything to feel better. But you don’t know how.

I hear you.

The good news is that there’s nothing wrong with you.

You’re struggling and that’s okay.

Long ago, something happened to make you feel like you weren’t good enough. That has been hammered home for you more times that you even realize. Now something has threatened what little sense of success you have and it started this landslide of self-doubt, self-loathing and you don’t know how to change it. You really believe these things about yourself no matter what anyone else says. 

I can help.

Come spend a few hours in my office and we’ll work on helping you get off this runaway roller coaster and back on stable ground. 

You’re likely to leave our first session feeling better than you’ve felt in a long time. 

You’ll understand yourself better. 

Your relationship with your partner/friends/family will improve.

You’ll start believing in yourself again. 

You’ll have your life back.


I mean, what do you have to lose…except everything? 

How it Works

  • Pre-Intensive EMDR Consultation

    During this 90-minute session, we'll talk about what you want to focus on during the Intensive EMDR Therapy session and lay the groundwork for the entire experience. Together, we'll pinpoint the distressing memories, beliefs, emotions and/or images that you want to find relief from. (This session is only for new clients.)

  • Created-For-You Workbook

    This workbook includes evaluations and exercises designed to get you ready for the Intensive EMDR Therapy session. There is plenty of space to track your progress toward treatment goals before, during and after our session(s). Get a fillable PDF or print it yourself.

  • Intensive EMDR Therapy Session

    The Intensive EMDR Therapy session takes place at my office in St. Charles, Missouri. The session is scheduled for 3 hours on one day and includes customized trauma processing, resourcing/grounding activities suited to your needs. We'll take breaks as needed.

  • Post-Intensive EMDR Follow-Up

    This 90-minute session will be 2-4 weeks after the Intensive EMDR Therapy session. It’s our chance to recap from the Intensive session and check in to see how you're doing. We'll talk about how things have changed, any "ah ha” moments and any relief from previous symptoms. We'll discuss treatment goals for moving forward.

Intensive Options

1 Day - $1500

  • 6 hours total - including the pre/post-assessment consultations scheduled on separate days

  • 3 hours face-to-face processing

  • customized treatment workbook

  • Self-Care Add-on menu available

2 Day - $2250

  • 9 hours total - including the pre/post-assessment consultations scheduled on separate days

3 Day - $3000

  • 12 hours total - including the pre/post-assessment consultations scheduled on separate days

Payment Schedule & Cancellation Policy

Your credit card on file will be charged a 50% non-refundable deposit which is due at the time of booking. The remaining balance will be charged the morning of your scheduled session.

Your card will automatically be charged for a missed appointment (no show or cancellation with less than 2 weeks notice) equivalent to one session hour. The 50% deposit does not count toward this so please be mindful of prior commitments.

*Payment plans can be discussed.

Let’s Get Started!

Embrace a new way of healing and self-discovery with an Intensive EMDR Therapy Session.

Below are some of the most commonly asked questions. If there are additional questions that are not addressed below, please feel free to email me.

Intensive EMDR Therapy Sessions FAQs

  • This type of session is where we meet for 3 hours each day over 3 days. We identify and process traumatic events, thoughts and feelings from your past that are showing up in your current life and causing distress.


    Together, we create a meaningful and transformative experience for your session. From your fave drink and snacks to essential oils, this process is all about YOU and your healing. And don’t forget about the Self-Care Add-ons!

  • Heck no! My state license restricts me from practicing in other states where I am not licensed.

    However, you are more than welcome to travel to Missouri to participate in this Intensive EMDR Therapy session. It is purposefully compacted into this timeframe so that we can maximize your time.

    Check out the services offered in the Intensives for Mamas. Guys like to travel, too.

  • Unfortunately, insurace companies do not cover Intensive EMDR Therapy sessions.

  • Each Intensive EMDR Therapy session is a 3-hour session held in 1 day.

    Therapy Intensive Rates:

    Weekday Intensive EMDR Therapy session (Mon-Thurs) - $220 per hour

    Weekend Intensive EMDR Therapy Session - $270 per hour

    Payment Schedule & Cancellation Policy

    Your credit card on file will be charged a 50% non-refundable deposit which is due at the time of booking. The remaining balance will be charged the morning of your scheduled Intensive EMDR Therapy session.

    Payment plans are available.

  • Money is an important factor these days, I get it. Instead of putting therapy on hold, you can still invest in your wellbeing, just in fewer sessions.

    Intensive EMDR Therapy sessions are 3 hours long and while that sounds like a lot of time, that time is spent getting to the heart of the matter, faster.

    Payment plans are available.

  • Click the link below to schedule a free consultation. I look forward to talking with you.

    Schedule a Free 20 Minute Consultation

  • Yes. The workbook is especially for new clients and helps me get to know you and the things you’re bringing to the session.

    You can begin your transformation before the Intensive EMDR Therapy session even begins with this workbook.

    Filled with assessments for you to complete along with questions to prompt you to start thinking about the things that are causing you distress. These could be memories from the past, thoughts about yourself and emotions that keep coming up.

  • Two-four weeks after the Intensive EMDR Therapy session, we will meet again for 90 minutes to recap from the Intensive session and check in to see how you're doing. We'll talk about treatment goals for moving forward. This may include scheduling additional Intensive EMDR Therapy sessions, a multi-day Intensive EMDR Therapy session or returning to weekly therapy sessions.